Neurodivergent-Affirming Evaluations & Coaching
Located in Amsterdam and Online
About
I'm Julie Angileri, a U.S. board-certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner and the founder of Discreet Insight, a neurodivergent-affirming mental health practice based in Amsterdam.
My path is anything but typical—and that’s exactly what makes it powerful. I bring a rare blend of expertise, with dual training in both psychiatry and family medicine, a fellowship in functional medicine, and additional credentials in integrative medicine. I’m also a certified ADHD and Autism Practitioner, with lived experience of both. This fusion of clinical knowledge and personal insight allows me to connect deeply with clients while offering a truly holistic, informed approach to care.
One of the things that sets my practice apart is my ability to identify and understand the medical conditions that often co-occur with autism and ADHD—such as sleep disturbances, hormonal imbalances, autoimmune issues, and digestive disorders. These are often overlooked in conventional settings, but I view them as vital pieces of the puzzle.
Equally important is how I see autism. I don’t approach it as a disorder to be “fixed,” but as a unique neurological difference to be understood, honored, and supported. My care model is strengths-based, affirming, and culturally attuned—grounded in respect for each person’s individuality and potential.
At Discreet Insight, I offer comprehensive autism and ADHD evaluations, therapy and coaching for adults and children, and parent coaching to help caregivers respond with practical, compassionate tools.
Whether you're seeking clarity, coping strategies, or a space where your neurodivergence is seen as a strength—not a setback—you’re welcome here.
Services
You’re not lazy. You’re not broken. You’re not alone.
This ADHD evaluation is for people who’ve spent their lives trying harder than anyone realizes—only to feel like they’re still falling short. It’s for those whose minds are always running, but never in the direction they “should” be.
You may be:
A parent whose child was just diagnosed—and suddenly your own childhood (and adulthood) is making more sense
A successful professional constantly battling overwhelm, procrastination, and imposter syndrome
A dad who forgets appointments, struggles with daily tasks, and wonders why life feels like a juggling act no one prepared him for
Someone who’s tried therapy or medications for anxiety or depression, but nothing quite fits
A person who’s been told they have “so much potential,” yet feels like they’re always one step behind
I see you. I hear the frustration and the exhaustion.
And I want to work with you—not to make you more “productive,” but to help you understand your brain and reconnect with your strengths.
This evaluation isn’t just about a diagnosis. It’s about validating your experience, giving language to your struggles, and offering you real strategies that work with your brain—not against it.
Name it. Understand it. Move forward with focus.
This 4-hour comprehensive ADHD assessment package is designed to help you or your child gain clarity, feel validated, and take action. Whether ADHD is newly suspected or long-misunderstood, this evaluation goes beyond diagnosis—it gives you tools and direction.
What’s Included:
A structured clinical interview exploring developmental, academic, emotional, and behavioral history
Discussion of current struggles with attention, impulsivity, time management, and executive functioning
Evidence-based screening tools and optional input from parents, teachers, or partners
Evaluation of co-occurring challenges such as anxiety, mood disorders, or sleep difficulties
An optional IQ test, if indicated*
A comprehensive written report with findings and tailored recommendations
In-session coaching to help you understand your results and start making empowered changes
What You’ll Walk Away With:
A clear understanding of how your brain functions—not just labels
Better focus, improved emotional regulation, and fewer moments of confusion or overwhelm
Relief from self-doubt, and a sense of direction
A personalized action plan for next steps—coaching, therapy, school/work accommodations, or lifestyle strategies
Led by Julie Angileri, a U.S. board-certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, this is a warm, collaborative process rooted in neurodivergent-affirming care. This isn't just an evaluation—it’s your turning point. *only available to people who were raised in the US.
(For Children, Adolescents, or Adults)
If you've always felt different—you’re not alone. And you're not broken.
This autism assessment is for anyone who's spent a lifetime feeling misunderstood, overlooked, or out of sync with the world around them. It's for those who’ve masked so well that even they’ve started to question their own experience.
You may be:
A parent of a newly diagnosed child, realizing for the first time how much of their experience mirrors your own
A high-achieving mom whose anxiety quietly rules her life behind the success
A dad who struggles to maintain friendships and feels isolated in a world that never quite fit
Someone who's tried medications, therapy, or self-help—and still feels like something fundamental is being missed
A person who’s always felt like an outsider, or even as some describe, “an alien” in social settings or traditional systems
I see you. I’ve been you.
And I want to work with you—compassionately, collaboratively, and without trying to “fix” you.
This isn’t just about getting a diagnosis. It’s about finding language for who you are, clarity around your needs, and a path forward that finally feels right.
This 4-hour intensive package is designed to give you deep clarity and a real plan forward. Whether for yourself or your child, this neurodivergent-affirming experience includes:
What’s Included:
A comprehensive clinical interview exploring your developmental, social, emotional, and sensory history
Evidence-based screening tools for autism and related conditions (like ADHD or gender diversity)
An optional IQ test if indicated*
Input from caregivers, partners, or parents (when relevant)
A personalized clinical report with findings, impressions, and clear next steps
Live coaching session during your time to understand your results, explore your neurotype, and begin making empowered choices
What You’ll Walk Away With:
A stronger understanding of yourself or your child
Improved mental clarity and reduced anxiety
Insight into why fatigue or overwhelm might be happening—and what to do about it
A clear, affirming roadmap for moving forward—whether that includes workplace accommodations, coaching, therapy, or family support
Conducted by Julie Angileri, U.S. board-certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, this session is warm, collaborative, and tailored to your neurodivergent experience. It’s more than an assessment—it’s a moment of clarity and validation. *available for those who were raised in the US.
Deep support for neurodivergent minds—grounded in expertise and real-life experience.
Coaching at Discreet Insight goes beyond strategy. These 4-hour intensive blocks offer focused space for insight, growth, and support—tailored to the unique ways ADHD and autism show up in your life.
Led by Julie Angileri, a U.S. board-certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with lived experience as an AuDHD adult and parent, each session is grounded in both clinical expertise and neurodivergent-affirming care.
What You Can Focus On:
Emotional regulation and executive functioning
Identity exploration and unmasking
Sensory strategies and daily structure
Parent coaching and family dynamics
Building self-understanding and self-compassion
These extended sessions are ideal for:
Autistic or ADHD teens and adults wanting deeper clarity and tools
Children needing strengths-based, affirming support
Parents navigating the challenges of raising neurodivergent kids
Whether you're navigating burnout, decision paralysis, or just need someone who gets it, this is a space where you're met with curiosity—not correction.
Snag your spot
Taking the first step towards mental wellness can feel daunting, but we're here to walk alongside you, every step of the way. Book an appointment with us today, and let’s embark on this journey to better mental health together.
